Stress
management refers to the wide spectrum of techniques
and psychotherapies aimed at controlling
a person's levels of stress, especially chronic
stress, usually for the purpose of improving everyday functioning.
Although
many techniques have traditionally been developed to deal with the consequences
of stress considerable research has also been conducted on the prevention of
stress, a subject closely related to psychological
resilience-building
Here
are 10 ideas for handling stress without causing more strain and hassle.
Figure out where
the stress is coming from.
Instead of feeling like you’re flailing day to day, identify what you’re
actually stressed about. Is it a specific project at work, an upcoming exam, a
dispute with your boss, a heap of laundry, a fight with your family?
Consider what you can control—and work on
that.
The worst thing for stress is trying to take control over uncontrollable
things. Because when you inevitably fail — since it’s beyond your control — you
only get more stressed out and feel helpless. So after you’ve thought through
what’s stressing you out, identify the stressors that you can control, and
determine the best ways to take action.
Do what you
love.
It’s so much easier to manage pockets of stress when the rest of your
life is filled with activities you love. Even if your job is stress central,
you can find one hobby or two that enrich your world. What are you passionate
about? If you’re not sure, experiment with a variety of activities to find
something that’s especially meaningful and fulfilling.
Manage your time
well.
We all
have the same 168 hours, and yet there are plenty of people who are dedicated
parents and full-time employees and who get at least seven hours of sleep a night and lead fulfilling lives.
Create a toolbox
of techniques.
One stress-shrinking strategy won’t work for all your problems. For
instance, while deep breathing is helpful when you’re stuck in traffic or
hanging at home, it might not rescue you during a business meeting.
Because stress is complex, “What we need is a toolbox that’s full of
techniques that we can fit and choose for the stressor in the present moment,”
said Richard Blonna
Pick off the
negotiable from your plate.
Reducing your stack of negotiable tasks can greatly reduce your stress.
Are you leaving yourself extra
vulnerable to stress?
If you’re not getting sufficient sleep or physical activity during the
week, you may be leaving yourself extra susceptible to stress. When you’re
sleep-deprived, sedentary and filled to the brim with coffee, even the smallest
stressors can have a huge impact.
Preserve
good boundaries.
One thing I’ve noticed about productive, happy people is that they’re
very protective of their time and having their boundaries crossed. But not to
worry: Building boundaries is a skill you can learn.
Realize there’s
a difference between worrying and caring.
Sometimes,
our mindset can boost stress, so a small issue mushrooms into a pile of
problems. We continue worrying, somehow thinking that this is a productive — or
at least inevitable — response to stress. But we mistake worry for action.
Embrace
mistakes—or at least don’t drown in perfectionism.
Another
mindset that can exacerbate stress is perfectionism. Trying to be mistake-free
and essentially spending your days walking on eggshells is exhausting and
anxiety-provoking. Talk about putting pressure on yourself! And as we all know
but tend to forget: Perfectionism is impossible and not human, anyway.

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